Thanks - the bonjour suggestion probably resolves the issue in the short-run while I am debugging and seeing if I can get everything to work.
In the long-term, I only need the Italian server to run when I am away. There is no HDHomeRun here - I am getting IPTV feeds of the digitale terrestre (OTA) broadcasts. I want Channels DVR in Italy to use those as sources and then I can watch them in US when I am back. Problem is the IPTV feeds for broadcast TV are buggy. Kodi seems to be able to tune them reliably but I don't think I can access the Kodi channels in Channels and I can't access Kodi remotely when I am back in the States.
Another alternative is to setup a VPN connection to my house in Italy but my router is supplied by TIM (my fiber provider) and configuring it for a VPN seems non-trivial.
So, I have a # of paths to get this done and a week or so before we head back to try to see what I can get working.