The important thing is that you brought this pattern into awareness now. At least you have a backup plan in case something gets hosed using VPN or tailscale and remote desktop.
Im thankful you brought this up, so I (and others)wont just blindly do an update server from my phone while driving - which used to be very fast and convenient.
For now, until apple smooths out these privacy and secirity popups we all should be more aware.
Im using external disks for channels, and a different disk for my portainer stacks and other things.
I can confirm Im getting this popups running other applications, its nuts.
Yesterday I got one just to run terminal, which of course Ive been using for a very long time. Weird and annoying

